Tamude 5th secret: Self confidence+Self improvement + Tolerance

TAMUDE: PERSONAL GUIDANCE

5th SECRET: Self Confidence + Self Improvement + Tolerance

People who can self discipline themselves after achievement will have double winning results. ~by Tamude

Tamude has taught Jewish that never succumb to obstacles and never succumb to failure but keep doing what you think is right and keep improving yourself with great tolerance of discouragement from others.

This principle has been a tradition for Jewish. Many successful Jewish has acheived great success after come through a lot of obstacles. They never gave up and they contributed their life to what they did. They achieved their acheivement with great determination.

Jewish can be recognized for their great extent of tolerance in the world. Even after so thousand years of hardship, they still can endure all the difficulties and survived till now.

In our life, we always get irritated easily because of a little trouble. A lot of good things can be done but turn into failure due to our lost of self discipline. Then, we always feel regret after thing has turned into negative results to us. Tamude tells us always to self discipline and self control ourselves to face anything calmly with smiles instead of anger. We must have this positive attitude to handle difficulties in any relationship including business, family, friends, etc.

Tolerance is painful, because it suppresses our cheerful nature. Learn to be tolerant and learn to endure hardships will make us not to do stupid things out of anger. We will not do something imprudently that will make us regret the whole life. We also can learn from other people of their tolerance.

3rd October 1991 was a common day for most of the people but not Gedimo. She is a Jewish femaie author. This was a day she was awarded Nobel Literature Award. She was the no
7 th female author awareded for this and was the first female author in 25 years after the last female author awarded Nobel Literature Award. This Nobel Award was the results of her 40 years efforts and contributions in her writing life.

She was born in 1923. Her mother was from England andher father was a Jewish jewellery businessman. In 6 years old, she wanted to bea ballet dancer. In a rainy Saturday, she registered to join ballet course.

However, she was too weak for this ballet dancing. Finally, she had to give up her pursue of ballet career due to health problem. However, she wanted to be successful in her life even in other field. Very unluckily, in her 8 years old, she had to leave the school due to health problem. She had to rest at home. She only had her book with her in her bed and she always cried from night till morning.

One day in summer, she was feeling too lonely and she decided to go out for a walk to gain a little happiness. Suddenly, she was attracted to a small building in her town. The building was a library of her town. She was so happy as she has already finished reading her book at home. She loved books so much. From the day onwards, she made herself whole day reading in this library. Many times, she hide herself under the table when the library rang for closing of the day. When every staff left the library. She only come out from the hiding place and continue reading books without feeling tiredness.

She had great passion over literature. After reading so many books, she had a lot of inspiration in her mind. Finally, she decided to start her writing career in her 9 years old. Her first novel was published in a local newspaper when she was 15 years old. But nobody knows this was written by a 15 years old girl. In 1953, her first long novel named "the lying days" had turned out to be a surprising bomb in worldwide literature. The whole world was so impressed with her words and her expressions of her feeling in this novel. Every author in the world threw their attention to this new author.

From the day onwards, she has written over 10 long and 200 short novels. Many novels were so high quality and made her awarded many times. 1961, her novel, The Friday foot print, was awarded England Smith Awards. 1974, she was awarded again by England Literacy Awards.

Many times, her novels like stranger world, the guest, etc were recommended by world renowned Sweden literacy authority to join Nobel awards. However, many times due to some other external reasons, her novels were not awarded. She has written "Nobel awards, failure" in her books many times. But she did not give up her passion of writing. Finally she has been finally successfully awarded Nobel literacy on 3rd October, 1991.

4th Secret: United is the power

TAMUDE: PERSONAL GUIDANCE

4th SECRET: UNITED IS THE POWER

If you don't unite with others, any individual strength is weak.

~by Tamude

Tamude says that one person wisdom is limited. This is why all the Jewish in the world are so united. Tamude teaches them to build relationship with people around them. Social networking is very important activity for Jewish. That is why Sunday was chosen to be a resting day. Everyone has to stop their job and doing social networking with people around.

Jewish always have a lot of communications among each other. This alsocreates a good competition and communication to improve themselves.There is a story in Tamude.

A hawker was shouting on the road and telling the people around that he wanted to sell the secret of live to them. All the pedestrians heard about this and come towards him. They asked the hawker what was the secret of life. The hawker replied that take care of your tongue. He
advised people to speak with good intention instead of using their tongue to talk something bad. If Jewish did not use their tongue carefully, one may hurt another and it might become bigger conflict in their community.

So, without using the tongue carefully, it may cause a united organizationwill be shattered. Ok, then you may ask if there is a dispute happen between 2 persons, then what Jewish will do?

Ok, there is a common rule for Jewish. When someone talks something bad and cause a dispute. He will apologize to the other party and look for his forgiveness. If the other party forgive him, then there is no problem. However, if the other party don't forgive him. Then, Jewish has one method to settle such situation. The person who cannot get forgiveness, he can go to find another 10 person who are not relation to both party. He can explain all the things happen completely to all these 10 person and seek for their forgiveness. If the 10 persons can forgive him, then he will feel already being forgiven. This is because he has acquired forgiveness from the public.

Hence, according to Tamude, a group of 10 persons can be considered as a small group of community that can decide some of the things.Jewish realize what he himself do is also representing a big family of other Jewish. Hence, if he has done something wrong, he will apologize as "we" and not "I". Other than that, if he found someone else has done something wrong, even is not done by him, he still will seek forgiveness from the God also. This is because hewill feel he do not do much charity to help people and cause other people involved in crimes.

This is because why Jewish is a very united race. That is why even Jewish is separated all over the world but they are still very united and always communicate among each other.

　

　

FOCUSSING ALL YOUR STRENGTH ON 1 TARGET

TAMUDE: PERSONAL GUIDANCE

THIRD SECRET:
FOCUS ALL YOUR STRENGTH ON ONE
TARGET

Too much you gain, you will lose too. ~by Tamude

When Jewish is working in the office to make money, they
always hope to hang a notice at their door of the room, " DON DISTURB!, I AM
BUSY MAKING MONEY!".

There is a story in Tamude.

One day, there was one man visited Rabe (Wise man), Joseph while Joseph was busy plucking apple on the tree.

The man, shouted at Joseph," My dearrespected Joseph, I have a question to ask you."

Joseph replied,"I am sorry, I now cannot go down the tree to answer your question because I was employed by the owner here to pluck the apples. My time is belongs to him."

During the end of the work that day, Joseph has requested to the owner to deduct some of his salary to compensate the time he answered the question.

He was not only honest but this story has shownto us while Jewish is working, they are working with their full concentrationand focusing.

Different people has different life span, some have longer and some are shorter. However, it is fair that every one has only one time for their life. Hence, we must treasure our life to fulfill our dream in our limited life.

In the arena of life, if we don't have a specific target,we cannot achieve success. Many people have great confidence, wisdom, ability,but if they do not make clear their target or they don have a specific target,they will not be successful. This is easy understood just like a 100% shooter,if he does not have a target to aim, he is just shooting every where targetlessly.

Another story to share about Mr. Craig R. Barrett here.

In 21st May of 1997, Craig R. Barrett,immigrant jewish from Hungary, was appointed as President of Intel. During the 80s, Intel has become the leader of semiconductor and computer industry. However, due to the marketing strategy of Japanese manufacture- always 10% cheaper, Intel started to lose its market share in computer market. The sales has dropped tremendously. Once this computer is the most profitable item in Intel.

In a morning meeting, Mr. Craig asked his managers," Can you believe Intel without computer? I think I can!" After the meeting, Intel decided to give up computer business and only focus on
microprocessor business. Till now, Intel has become the market leader of microprocessor.

So, if you want to be persistent and focusing on your target, there are some advice from Tamude as below:

• Do not ask people who doubt you, and
  do not tell them your thoughts;


• Do not ask a woman how to become
  blacksmith, just like asking a coward about the war affairs;


• Do not ask stingy person about
  gratitude, just like asking cruel person to do some charity;


• Do not ask a lazy person how to
  complete a task strictly;


• Sometimes a short man can see further
  and more things than 7 guards on top of a tower;


• Listen to your own judgment and you
  yourself are the most trusted and reliable person as long as you are living
  in the house of truth.

Probably, we are not as great as Mr. Craig. But, we must listen to our own judgment and focusing persistently to face all the challenges in our life with our own principles .

Check up brief biography of Mr. Craig from below website:

http://www.intel.com/pressroom/kits/bios/barrett.htm

The Second Secret in Tamude

TAMUDE: PERSONAL GUIDANCE

SECOND SECRET:

The Stomach of Prime Minister is big to have a ship inside (Chinese idiom), Always Be Tolerance and Forgiving People

No matter at what moment, we must always have a heart of tolerance and forgiving

~by Tamude

Jewish is the best trusted friend in business, this is generally recognized by the whole world. This is because they really control their emotions very well and do not let the bad emotions affect their business with other party.

Every 25th November, Jewish will celebrate candle festival. There is a story behind.

In 2300 years ago, the King tried to demolish Jewish religion. Hence, Jewish has get united in a sacred temple. They have use very little amount oil to light up the candle. This very little amount of oil was miraclely burnt for 8 days to light up the candle. This is a miracle. Hence,
from day on, Jewish will celebrate 8 days during Candle Festival.

The Jewish teacher always never forget to teach the next generations to respect other races and other religion. Forgiving and tolerance is a good merit to them to be successful in the business world. That is why they very seldom to bring their bad emotions into business and they always forgiving other people. They always look at other people good merits instead of weak
points.

Most of the time, people like to compete and see other people weak points. Then, people will like to comment on other people weak points to show that they are more superior. This has made the damage to a team work or to business. However, let's see what Jewish did. When a few Jewish
business partners are gathering, they are always praising, admiring among themselves. This has made them become a very united group to overcome outside difficulties together.

They knew that bearing hatchet upon others has no meaning and made own life suffering. Hence, they rarely hate a person.

Just like what Shakespeare said," Don't let the fire of anger burn you fiercely."

Tamude: Personal Guidance-1st Secret-Do not exaggerate

TAMUDE: PERSONAL GUIDANCE

FIRST SECRET: DO NOT EXAGGERATE

Even if he is an intelligent scholar, if he exaggerates his knowledge, then he is just a shamless stupid person.

Do not exaggerate and be humble represent that we trust our own rightfulness and self-esteemed. Humble is a combination of success and failure. Be humble and alert is balancing us so that we will not feel neither superior or inferior to others.

The true wisdom is always integrated with humble. A man will feel he knows little when he gets to know more. No matter what job you are in, only be hunble and alert, then you will always be self improving, getting more and more knowledge and ability.

Tamude has warned us that : " Money is a short cut to complacence, and complacence is short cut to sin."

Do not let out your self ability inside to others just to show off

Rabe is a status in Jewish that are regarded as well respected scholar or someone who has great wisdom.There is a story here.

Once, there is one Rabe pretends sleeping while his followers were praising him.

First follower praised him that," He is so generous that he has been donating his wealth to many people here." Second follower praised him," He is so kind that he almost has no tempered! We have never see him angry before." Third follower praised him," He is so clever and he is the greatest Rabe in the world!"

Then, all the followers remained silence and this time the Rabe slowly opened one of his eyes.He felt so hurt in his expression and blamed his followers," Why there is nobody praises my humility?"

This story is always sarcastically used to criticize people who don't know how to be humble.

Tamude says that, we must treat people around us in a humble manner.

The 3rd President of United States, Mr. Thomas spoke to a famous French scholar that:" If you want the true meaning of France Reformation, you have to be like me always go to people around and visit them one by one to see their rice bowl and what is the taste of their bread"

Humility can become a push to a successful person to go forward and keep improving even if he has achieved great results.

　

　

Discover the Secret making Jewish World No 1 Businessman

DISCOVER THE SECRET MAKING JEWISH WORLD NO 1 BUSINESSMAN

Dear friends, this is the first book I would like to share with you --- TAMUDE.

Ok, before read my blog please taking away of any thing related to religion or politics.

Just to have an open mind to read my blog and my sharing from what I read from Tamude.

Why I choose this book as my first book to share for in my following coming up blogs?

This is because Tamude has opened my mind and benefited me. So I wish to share with more people and I believe Tamude also can help you in some way.

But why is this book relates to the secret making Jewish World No 1 Businessman?

There is 5 BIG reasons I recommend you to read this book:

• This book has greatly affect Jewish life style, cultures and belief for more than 3300 years already.
• This is a book of secrets that makes Jewish World No 1 businessman.
• This is a book of navigation guidance of life for Jewish to survive even under hardest condition.
• This is a book consists of 2 main part of personal guidance and business guidance.
• In short, this is a book of wisdom that decodes so many successful Jewish over the centuries.

Perhaps if you still don't know who are those successful great people in the history and present are

Jewish. Let me just quote some of them....

Albert Einstein, Warren Buffet, Steven Spielberg, Ralph Lauren, Michael Dell, George Soros, Harrison Ford, Calvin Klein, Levi Strauss, Camille Pissarro, Milton Hershey, Alan Greenspan, Steve Ballmer(CEO of Microsoft) and many others..

Tamude is the most important book for Jewish to read since 3000 years ago.

This book I read is in Chinese version and I will share my book review in my English blog with my limited English ability.

I would love to share what I have read from this book with all of you and hope it can inspire you just like inspire me.

However, I would like to apologize if there is some mistakes in my blog due to my limited English.

If you are interested to get one copy of this book, just email to me at mirageak@gmail.com, I will help you to get a Chinese version of Tamude.

Thank you!